5 Important Lessons in Life
First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.
During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz.
I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one:
"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times.
She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper,
leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question
would count toward our quiz grade. "Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will
meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do
is smile and say hello." I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.
Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain
One night, at 11.30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama
highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed
a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her,
generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get
assistance and put her into a taxicab. She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise,
a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached. It read:
Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only
my clothes, but also my spirits.
Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just
before he passed away. God blesses you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.
Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole
Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve.
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee
shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice
cream sundae?" he asked. "Fifty cents," replied the waitress. The little boy pulled his hand out
of his pocket and studied the coins in it. "Well how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he
inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.
"Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied. The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have
the plain ice cream," he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table
and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress
came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty
dish, were two nickels and five pennies. You see, he couldn't have the sundae because he had to
have enough left to leave her a tip.
Fourth Important Lesson - The obstacle in Our Path.
In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to
see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers
came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear,
but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way. Then a peasant came a long carrying
a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to
move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded.
After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where
the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating
that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned
what many of us never understand. Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.
Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts.
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz
who was suffering from a rare and serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a
blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and
had developed the antibodies, needed to combat the illness.
The doctor explained the situation to her little brother and asked the little boy if he would be
willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her." As the transfusion progressed, he
lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek.
Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a
trembling voice, "Will I Start to die right away?" Being young, the little boy had misunderstood
the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save
her. Yet he was willing.
First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.
During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz.
I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one:
"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times.
She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper,
leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question
would count toward our quiz grade. "Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will
meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do
is smile and say hello." I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.
Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain
One night, at 11.30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama
highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed
a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her,
generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get
assistance and put her into a taxicab. She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise,
a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached. It read:
Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only
my clothes, but also my spirits.
Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just
before he passed away. God blesses you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.
Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole
Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve.
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee
shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice
cream sundae?" he asked. "Fifty cents," replied the waitress. The little boy pulled his hand out
of his pocket and studied the coins in it. "Well how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he
inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.
"Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied. The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have
the plain ice cream," he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table
and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress
came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty
dish, were two nickels and five pennies. You see, he couldn't have the sundae because he had to
have enough left to leave her a tip.
Fourth Important Lesson - The obstacle in Our Path.
In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to
see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers
came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear,
but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way. Then a peasant came a long carrying
a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to
move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded.
After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where
the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating
that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned
what many of us never understand. Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.
Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts.
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz
who was suffering from a rare and serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a
blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and
had developed the antibodies, needed to combat the illness.
The doctor explained the situation to her little brother and asked the little boy if he would be
willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her." As the transfusion progressed, he
lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek.
Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a
trembling voice, "Will I Start to die right away?" Being young, the little boy had misunderstood
the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save
her. Yet he was willing.
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